{"id":28828,"date":"2015-03-15T18:42:10","date_gmt":"2015-03-15T18:42:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/?p=28828"},"modified":"2015-03-17T16:19:13","modified_gmt":"2015-03-17T16:19:13","slug":"the-jerks-of-the-atheist-movement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/?p=28828","title":{"rendered":"The Jerks of the Atheist Movement"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am sometimes asked what I think of today&#8217;s leading atheists, people like Richard Dawkins, Bill Maher, Sam Harris.<\/p>\n<p>I am saying this as someone who doesn&#8217;t own a Bible (I suspect the Smithsonian&#8217;s replica edition of <i><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Jefferson_Bible\">The Jefferson Bible<\/a><\/i> doesn&#8217;t count), but does have copies of Dawkins&#8217; <i>The God Delusion<\/i> and Hitchens&#8217; <i>God Is Not Great<\/i> on his living room bookshelf.<\/p>\n<p>I think they&#8217;re generally assholes in how they go about doing what they do.  I have no issues with their goals of destigmatizing non-belief and working for a religiously pluralistic society that doesn&#8217;t favor any particular creed.  How they go about arguing their corner, though, is not infrequently painful.  Sometimes, I feel they cross the line into bad taste and deliberate offensiveness.<\/p>\n<p>I am not alone in feeling this way.  I am not the only atheist who thinks Dawkins is the world&#8217;s best argument against becoming an atheist, because who wants to hang their flag on that jerkface?  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.rawstory.com\/rs\/2015\/03\/patton-oswalt-to-bill-maher-and-richard-dawkins-its-ok-to-be-an-atheist-but-not-to-be-a-jerk\/\">Patton Oswalt feels the same way<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I feel, as an atheist, about people like Richard Dawkins and Bill Maher the way that Christians must feel about Fred Phelps.  Look, being an atheist means you don&#8217;t give a fuck about what anyone believes in.  I don&#8217;t think any of it&#8217;s real, but you can go ahead and do it.  I&#8217;m not trying to destroy religion.  I just don&#8217;t care about it.  I have my own moral code, as twisted as it is, but it&#8217;s not a bunch of old, desert fairy tales that I live by.&#8221;  (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.salon.com\/2015\/03\/11\/salons_patton_oswalt_peace_summit\/\">Source<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s pretty much exactly how I feel.  I don&#8217;t care what anyone believes; if it makes the person happy and their belief doesn&#8217;t harm me or anyone else, what do I care?  I have my moral code; very simply, it&#8217;s &#8220;Don&#8217;t be an asshole.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Where I differ from Dawkins &#8212; and a big part of why I think he&#8217;s an asshole &#8212; is that he thinks that believers are foolish and stupid to believe, while I don&#8217;t think that at all.  (His &#8220;bright&#8221; meme &#8212; atheists should adopt a new term to describe themselves &#8212; made pretty clear what he really thought; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/?p=1583\">if atheists are &#8220;bright,&#8221; then by extension theists must be &#8220;dim.<\/a>&#8221;  That&#8217;s the reason I won&#8217;t use the term &#8220;bright,&#8221; because I think it&#8217;s deliberately insulting to believers.)  I don&#8217;t think that what believers believe in is true &#8212; obviously &#8212; yet I recognize that what they believe in gives them meaning, structure, and happiness, and I don&#8217;t think there&#8217;s anything wrong at all with having meaning, structure, and happiness in one&#8217;s life.<\/p>\n<p>I agree with something Ricky Gervais, also an atheist, said <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mediaite.com\/tv\/ricky-gervais-tells-piers-morgan-about-being-a-pathogical-atheist-and-why-irony-doesnt-work-on-twitter\/\">in an interview in 2013<\/a>: &#8220;It&#8217;s a strange myth that atheists have nothing to live for.  It&#8217;s the opposite.  We have nothing to die for, we have everything to live for.&#8221;  When you get one shot at life, you better make it count.  Spending time being a miserable git or making people miserable just isn&#8217;t worth it.<\/p>\n<p>Why be an asshole like Dawkins or Harris or Maher?  That won&#8217;t convince anyone to abandon their belief in god, and it may push someone who was on the edge of questioning religion away from embracing atheism.<\/p>\n<p>Kevin Smith gave the world the <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Buddy_Christ\">Buddy Christ<\/a> in <i>Dogma<\/i>.  Maybe we need an atheist comic to give the world a Buddy <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Necessity_of_Atheism\">Percy Bysshe Shelley<\/a> or Buddy <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Age_of_Reason\">Thomas Paine<\/a> or Buddy Sagan as the icon of a kinder, gentler atheism.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am sometimes asked what I think of today&#8217;s leading atheists, people like Richard Dawkins, Bill Maher, Sam Harris. I am saying this as someone who doesn&#8217;t own a Bible (I suspect the Smithsonian&#8217;s replica edition of The Jefferson Bible doesn&#8217;t count), but does have copies of Dawkins&#8217; The God Delusion and Hitchens&#8217; God Is<a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/?p=28828\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">&#8220;The Jerks of the Atheist Movement&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":28829,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[84],"tags":[4104,4023,153,3939],"class_list":["post-28828","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-atheism","tag-atheism","tag-patton-oswalt","tag-richard-dawkins","tag-sam-harris","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28828","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=28828"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28828\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/28829"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=28828"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=28828"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.allyngibson.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=28828"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}